“We’ve got to name these wounds. We’ve got to enter into them, touch them, heal them, verbalize and then release them so that we can be the people that we were created to be.” – Joe Ehrmann
Wounds from your past can have a devastating impact on the way you feel about yourself and others. In this episode, the second in a special series of six, Brian and Joe Ehrmann teach how to identify and heal those wounds that make it difficult for you to truly love and be loved. Topics discussed include how a deeply personal experience with his young son led Joe to reflect on his own relationship with his father; how an incident in Brian’s childhood inspired his motivation to succeed in life; and why healing is not about affixing blame, but about understanding what shaped you.
YOU WILL LEARN:
- The three basic questions we all have about identity, intimacy and industry.
- How we can be wounded by our nature, our nurture and our culture.
- Why the number one wound in our society is the father wound.
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INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“I think all of us come into this world with three basic questions. And the first is a question of identity: Who am I? The second is a question of intimacy: Who will love me? And the third is one of industry: What can I do with my life?” – Joe Ehrmann
“Most people want to change their circumstances, but they don’t want to change themselves. The challenge is, if you change yourself, circumstances will change also.” – Brian Buffini
“If you have a pebble in your shoe and you leave it there, you’re eventually going to develop a limp. And you can learn to walk through life with a limp, but it’s better to go back, take it out, then learn to walk properly and then maybe help others get this pebble out of their shoe.” – Brian Buffini
“We share our woundedness with others to offer that as a hope for healing.” – Joe Ehrmann
“A wound is some unresolved issue. And it’s not the fact that we’re wounded in life. It’s a decision we make as adults to deal with them.” – Joe Ehrmann
“All of us have woven into us this deep need for satisfaction. To be unconditionally loved, to be known for who and what we are and to be accepted for that.” – Joe Ehrmann